How do i keep a failing marriage from completely dying?

me and my wife may be splittin up due 2 trust issues that i did before we were together. also bein in iraq dont help either. shes 17 weeks pregnant and i want to be in my childs life 110% any advice how to keep her?How do i keep a failing marriage from completely dying?
Women are not man haters here, but some have had their trust used and abused by the men in their lives. I know exactly where you're coming from. My husband also was deployed during which i was pregnant and dealing with trust issues. Its very very hard. You two have to be really in love to be able to work these out. My husband called me everyday while in Iraq, and that helped me so much. I love him with all my heart, and that fuels me to keep working at our issues. Trust is not easy to come by. Your wife may not be up to the challenge. If she is though, ask her, what you can do to help build up your trust again. Tell her you want to be with her, that you want to make a life with her and your baby. And above all, be honest, be truthful, be faithful, and be there for her. It kills a woman's spirit, to be away from the man she loves. Even, if he's done her wrong.





EDIT: So, I see in your contacts, you have a picture of some woman in a sexy pose who's profile says shes' a:


bi sexual woman looking for fun. Maxine? You see, this is the kind of BS that a wife does not need. Unless, this bi-sexual woman is your beloved wife? Stay away from skanks and concentrate on your wife!How do i keep a failing marriage from completely dying?
The focus has to be on the relationship. Bringing up wanting to be there for the child is legitimate, but I don't think that is a card you should play to keep her. It sounds as though she needs to know that she has YOU interested in her. Not the baby, necessarily. If you did things in your past, you need to tap into getting honest with yourself and communicate your true feelings with her. If you truly love this woman, and want to spend your life with her and your new child, I suggest you give her security. If she feels secure in you, and she loves you and she is a decent woman, then she will stay.
You can try talking to her. But beware, here in yahoo answers the women in here are man haters. No matter how good of a parent you are or say you are, they will still put you down in here. Just keep doing what you're planning on doing and be there for your child, if you can. If she wants it a different way that's her fault, at least you tried to do all you could!
Trust is one of the most important thing in a relationship..u will have to do what ever it takes to rebuild n regain tht trust,it will take time..In the mean time show and tell her that u love her......Be patient though..Being in Iraq it will be harder to work on than if u were in the States I understand tht.Best interest for the child is for u to be in the child's life.Wish you the best of luck