Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Could cheating in a relationship or marriage be accepted as another form of life style?

Since everyone almost does it (mentally and physically) why don't we just throw our hand up in the air and say, ';that is from now on we know that we do it, but for sake of morality lets not admit we are doing it';Could cheating in a relationship or marriage be accepted as another form of life style?
First off, not everyone cheats. Second, it's not cheating if both people acknowledge it. Believe it or not, there are plenty of folks willing to talk about open marriages and open relationships and even polyamory and so on. It's not a novel concept. I actually know such people. The problem is when people are not HONEST about their wishes. Some peeps are cut out for monogamy and can't be happy without that security- they would be devastated and harmed by someone who cheated. Some people welcome the open life. Just be straight forward about your intentions and never, ever, ever sneak about and lie. Lying is what really causes the harm to all. Just be whatever you are and don't apologize, whether that's monogamous and marriage minded or open relationship minded. There are others like you!Could cheating in a relationship or marriage be accepted as another form of life style?
If its still called 'cheating' then its not acceptable....no matter what.





And don't assume that we are all unfaithful, physically or mentally.





It might feature on TV, films, books, newspapers but that does not mean we all do it. It probably more accurate to say that most people prefer a 'faithful' partner.
Suffer the consequences. Cheating should NEVER be accepted under any excuse - its not a reason, not a form of lifestyle. Its pure and simple disrespect for your spouse and selfishness on the part of the cheater.
The form doesn't matter, cheating is cheating. If you want other people, mentally or otherwise, stay single.
i would consult the one being cheated on. if they agree that this is a form of ';lifestyle'; then perhaps it could be accepted as such. but good luck with that.
already taken care of. it's called swinging or open marriages. to each his own.
No. We marry in thiw country to honour qne obey - cheating degates that.

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