Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Guys, would you respect a woman who did not believe in sex before marriage?

Due to mostly religious beliefs and strong morals? It has been tough waiting this long and if I never get married, I am cool with that too.Guys, would you respect a woman who did not believe in sex before marriage?
Yeah I would respect that, but I would be worried that on our wedding night I'd find out she's a really bad lay.Guys, would you respect a woman who did not believe in sex before marriage?
I waited until marriage to have sex, and not only did my husband respect my choice, but he had made the same decision for himself already.





Unfortunately, I also had a boyfriend who did not respect my decision. We still didn't do it, but he was clearly mad about it and tried to do it with me anyway.
I asked a question some weeks ago about how guys felt about marrying women who had had sex....the answers mainly said that although they had pressured who knows how many women into having sex with them....they were looking for a pure woman to marry.





It was unbelievable that they saw nothing wrong with this answer.....and it was hard for me to think of all those nice girls they had used for sex...but wouldn't consider marrying now.





UGH..!!! Why don't more girls realize this?
Sex outside of marriage BEFORE ....


... is not much different from


. . . sex out of marriage AFTER getting married





Both me and my wife waited.


When work takes me out of town, there is a confidence that nothing strange will happen while we are apart.





It is more than respect ...


... trust is easier.
Good for you. I was a virgin until I got married, and so was my husband. I was 29, he was 32. We've been married 13 years. What a nice bunch of guys on here, it's nice to know not everyone is like the last poster, who things we are mentally deranged. Enjoy your virginity, nothing wrong with that.
I would respect that the same way I respect the will of any other women. but honestly I don't think I would marry her, I believe that I don't want to realize that we have very different sexual tastes after we are already married.








one more thing... please don't be an 86 y/o virgin lady!
Yes I respect that. Depends on how the 'religious belief' defines 'sex'.Do you mean penetration? If so there is plenty of other fun things to do that will give both partners a 'happy ending' and neither tool need touch, if you get my drift.
Yes, I would respect her for that.


But I couldn't stay in a relationship with that kind of person because I don't agree with it and we clearly wouldn't have anything in common.


But yes - I would respect her.
Yeah I'd respect her. But I probably wouldn't date her.


Sex is one of those things that keep a marriage together, and virgins are not only unskilled but often become psychotically obsessed (they call it love) with their first.
Yes I would definitly respect that, I would like it too, because you are sure you end up with a girl thats not sleeping around with everybody like some girls do, It wouldn't trouble me for a second if I would really love her
Based on religious beliefs and strong morals, I most definitely would while praying there is no other reason for this like zero sex drive.
why not ask it the other way around: girls, would you respect a man who did not believe in sex before marriage? Women and Men are equals, should be double standards (my personal opinion).
any man that doesn't respect it isn't worth your time.





My great aunt Mary is 86 years old and she never married and she is still a virgin.
Not at my age im not for a commited realtionshit But i would if i was truly in love i am 16 by the way.
My boyfriend would have if I wanted to. But I don't believe in waiting for marriage, neither does he.
yes i would personally
That is my ideal of a woman.
Duh, no way, people who do not have sex before marriage are either extremelly ugly or mentally deranged.

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