I think it should all depend on how the woman herself feels about the issue. If she believes that she shouldn't be having sex until marriage because of her own moral beliefs, then she should make the decision that stays truest to what she thinks. Similarly, if a woman doesn't think that retaining her virginity is important (since it's a bit of a double standard within society that men can have as much sex as they wish and women are expected to be virgins), and 'loses' it before marriage, that's her choice as well. It's up to a woman as to how she views and uses her body.
The worst thing that could happen would be that a woman would feel forced by society to feel dirty or wrong for losing her virginity; or forced to feel like a cold prude for keeping it until marriage. It's whatever the woman is comfortable with.Is virginity so important for a girl? Why should she wait till her marriage? ?
It should be kept until you are completely ready to deal with any consequences that come with having sex.
Depending on your age, I wish I kept mine a lot longer, you can't get it back and it does change you and how others view you.
I wouldn't of waiting for marriage, it's admirable for those who do but I just wish I didn't do it so early bc really I had no clue, and the emotional turmoil you go through.
well i'm still young
%26amp; i am a virgin, there is nothing wrong with being one
it is sort of important to me but then again it's not ( i know i'm contradicting myself)
like i'm not just going to loose it to anybody
but then again i believe that marriage is just papers
why is it that a couple should have a marriage certificate to be recognized as being married?
they loved each other before they got the certificate so how does a certificate change it.
so it's kinda like bologna to me
you don't need a piece of paper to tell that 2 people love each other
all you need is commitment with yourself and the person you love
but as of right now for me i am still waiting
that's just what i think
just my opinion
its what God wants...most ppl put off marriage too long...why torture yourselves?
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