Friday, January 15, 2010

What are five good tips, that can relate to all couples, going through a hard time in their marriage?

Why are these 5 known to work?....help!What are five good tips, that can relate to all couples, going through a hard time in their marriage?
1%26gt;Trust each other.


2%26gt; Never jump into conclusions based on others including parents.


3%26gt; Be supportive not against him/her during hard times.


4%26gt; Ignore all that issues that can keep up the relations.


5%26gt; seek the children support that will work more than you especially the


youngest kid. LOVE for kid never ditches a hard guy even.


In brief eg wife at many houses I have seen girls run away when the face problem, that's the first mistake girls do.


when problem arises try to solve your self n not through others coz you know him more than anyone even if you find the problem not getting solved wait till anger comes down, try to be back to him in more loving way n even if he is still not normal try again, any guy will turn back except if he is not involved wid any 1 else.


Financial problem ? try to seek help to reform you problem helping him through your resources you can.


see to it he is full stomach when you discuss ur problems, with empty stomach no problem get solved.


Keep ur kids n make the youngest sit on his lap n love him while discussing that may help.


Most problems starts due to arguments try to avoid when he is not in good mood, may be you right but tell that later when he is in good mood he will accept.


Offer sex particularly during this time cos sex solves many problems.


Sex is not only enjoyment but it is more a bonding material in a relationship, if you are good at it the partner tends to get back to you. Good luck,What are five good tips, that can relate to all couples, going through a hard time in their marriage?
1) Be patient with each other. There are two sides to every story.


2) Don't go to bed angry with each other. You won't sleep well anyway, so it is better to talk things out before you try. And think of the great make-up sex it could lead to!


3) Communicate - Your partner is not a mind reader. Express what you want from them, don't assume they ';know.';


4) Be kind. Have you ever noticed how polite you can be to people you hardly know, and then turn around and treat your partner badly?


5) Ask yourself this question: Would I rather be right, or happy? A gracious capitulation is often rewarded later with a happy spouse. And guess what? You might discover you really were wrong! And if you are proved right, think how much better you come off having taken the high ground. Pick and choose your battles very cautiously.
1.communication is the number one key to keeping a marriage strong. if your both willing to listen to eachother and willing to change then theirs always room for improvement.


2. compromise- don't compromise your morals or values because in the end you'll end up resenting them, but be willing to compromise the small things. try to make as many things as you can 50/50


3. don't loose faith in eachother - when you quit fighting it shows you don't care what happens. as hard as it may be keep trying


4. seek professional help - they might be able to show you different techniques in getting along


5. see your spouses point of you - take a step out of your own shoes and maybe see what you can do to improve yourself.. instead of always trying to fix your spouse try to fix yourself first. always recognize your own faults first


6 appreciate eachother more - for every negative comment you say, say 2 more positive things. even if its something as simple as he helps take care of the home.


7. have fun - even if your not in the mood, push yourself to go out and have a date night.. agree to forget about your problems for the night and just have fun! sex is very important to a broken marriage. its the closest you can get to eachother..and remember its harder to fight during sex!
talk to each other with out yelling name calling ect and if you have kids don't get them involved! If you still want to be together what helped me was doing the date night thing once a week.even if its a video and a pizza at home it works cuz its like when your dating I know it can be a pain in the *** with childcare and other bs but it saved my marriage! let me know how it works and good luck
1. Don't expect your partner to meet all your needs.


2. Men need respect and Women need love.


3. Be slow to anger and quick to listen.


4. look at you own faults before you criticize your partner.


5. Go out on a romantic weekend.
Listen


Talk


Be willing to adapt to each other


Trust your partner


LOVE

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