nothingWhat would you do if the woman you married ten years ago tell you she was a whore before marriage?
How does that change who she is and the life you have had together? It doesn't....you could have gone the rest of your life without knowing and your feelings wouldn't have changed about her. What she did before the two of you were together should have absolutely nothing to do with your relationship with her now. As far as her sex drive now...you have 3 kids! Losing your sex drive isn't that unheard of...BUT it isn't healthy for the relationship and I would suggest her to see a doctor for possible medical problems or medication, and/or counseling for the two of you.
For her to tell you that meant one of two things. Either she was being a spiteful ***** trying to hurt you, or she went through some really bad stuff that messed her up and she's crying out for help. I don't know your circumstances, but if it was the later getting angry and calling her a whore is a pretty cold-hearted thing to do to someone you've been married to for ten years. If she told you this looking for help don't throw it back in her face. Try going to counseling together to help her through it.
everyone has a ';past';....but ';whore?'; kind of harsh isn't it? And, 3 kids later, she must have had a sex drive somewhere in here. Geez, give the woman a break. Have you thought about how you might be acting toward her to make her lose her drive? Or maybe it just isn't a priority with her anylonger. Women take raising children very seriously and 3 is a lot!!! Get a sitter and take her away for a nice relaxing weekend and how about treat her like a lady!
People change... If , when you were younger, you had the chance to have sex with multiple partners, wouldn't you have? She decided she wanted you over all the others. You should feel honored.
In regards to the current drive, try to surprize her with a sitter and some roses. Maybe some candle light. Maybe your specialty on the stove/ grill. ..or her favorite restaurant. If you are truly interested, let her KNOW. I promise you. She'll respond... If she doesn't, then wait a week and try, again. Be obvious!! Women get to a point in their lives when they start to question whether or not, they're still attractive.... Let her KNOW she is attractive to YOU. Best of LUCK!!
Tony62
Don't call her a whore man that isn't cool most people have done something we are not proud of. The past is the past has nothing to do with you.
You think she is the only women who has done this men do it to.
If you think that way about her and have such a problem with you sex life get divorced let her find someone who won't put judgement on her like that.
Get a grip son!
Maybe she needs you to throw money at her in order to get in the mood. Only kidding! Listen, what she did before you two got together is really none of your business. Those were obviously her wild times. Your only problem is in figuring out how to help her get her sex drive back and put it to good use. Get some sex toys, some lovin' oil and a couple of porn tapes if you think they'll help.
What made her just come out and tell you that she has a dark side in her past? I'm sure she did not just say this at the dinner table. ...So what happened ? At least tell us everything so we coult give you some kind of response.
Do you love her? Do you want to a divorce or something? Maybe you need to go to see a marriage council or something . Good Luck
You fell in love with her and that is all that matters. Forget the past as you should not dwell on your lives before you met each other. Perhaps she needs more adventure in the bedroom, not just laydown, lift her legs, and do the deed. Spice it up, make it wild and get kinky.
The past is the past, you can't change it so what's the point of getting all messed up over it? I mean it would bother me, I'd see the person in a different light, that's for certain, but in the end I would let it go.
I'd be p****d.
But what can you do?
You haven't known for 10 years. Why did she suddenly tell you this?
I see trouble heading your way.
Actually I'd go pretty ballistic but you have kids so you need to give this some serious thought and act rationally.
Good luck.
It's not about who we were. It's about who we are. Forget the past. If you're happy, be thankful you're one of the few. Ask her to not tell you anything else that might tarnish your mind's picture of her.
if she stopped before marriage then id say nothing, i would however make sure she was tested before marriage, if not get both of ur selves tested, and about the sexdrive, bring in some new stuff like toys
Who you were ten or however years ago can be a totally different person from who you are now. I'm sure you're not the same man you were ten years ago, maybe that's your hint.
Why would she want to have sex with a man who calls her a whore? What she did before marriage is her business..not yours.
I think this is a fake situation considering your name is JK like just kidding.
well its normal... I am not married no kids 26 years old with a very great sex drive...
Take an HIV test
Ask her how much for a whatever it is you're wanting... lol
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