Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Can this marriage last- Getting married after 6 months of knowing someone?

My sister is getting married she's 29, only known the guy for 6 months. She's been divorced before. I just want to know of any personal experiences of a marriage lasting after not really knowing each otherCan this marriage last- Getting married after 6 months of knowing someone?
Marriage is difficult and without knowing each other is harder im divorced and my marriage failed because i didnt kniw my ex-husbund and i discoverd that we couldnt get along only after marriageCan this marriage last- Getting married after 6 months of knowing someone?
Ill tell you what I know, I got married knowing him only for 6 months. We have been very happy! 3 years already and still strong. Let me tell you one thing though, the second year is the hardest. 1st year is like the honeymoon, all love and sex. 2nd year you learn alot more about each other and you point out the differences so you have many arguements, 3rd year you already know what each other likes and you have a better relationship, you just have to stick through it
my mom and dad have been married 28 years, knew each other 3 months before marrying.. my fiance's parents have been married 36 years or so, only knew each other 3 weeks... however, my parents and his parents length of marriage and faith to each other is not a testimonial to all marriages.. in other words, just because you know people whose marriages have lasted a while doesnt mean your sister's will... it may, it may not.. i married my ex husband after 6 months, and divorced him 6 years later... my fiance married his ex wife 6 months and had 2 kids with her, got divorced after 6 years...


we have been together 2 years, and knew we would spend our lives together after knowing each other for 2 weeks, but finances have kept us from being able to start our life together, so marriage is not in the picture yet.. but we know we will be together forever! its a case by case thing!





your sister may know all she needs to know about this man, and if so, good for her... i hope for the best!!!
Ohhh boy. Statistics are against them, but show knows..


Figures don't lie, but lie rs do figure.. Depends on their dynamics entirely. If the DECIDE to make it work it will. If they DECIDE not to, then it wont. Marriage/Relationship is a conscious decision. It takes two to make it, two work on it continually, and two to break it...
My son married his wife after knowing her for 3 weeks. They have been married for 5 years now and are as happy and in love as they were the day they got married. There is no timeline on feelings.
I am 34 and my wife is 38, we married 5 mos after meeting and been married now for 10yrs.
I think it can work! I got engaged in 8 weeks and married within 9 months-been married 4 years.
cant say, make her realize its her life
my parents ... over 25 years and still strong

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