What do you think about waiting to have sex till marriage?

this guy got sooo mad at me because i wouldn't have sex with him. what do you think about this decision i have made?What do you think about waiting to have sex till marriage?
you should break up with him if he gets so upset about you saying no!


he should respect ur decision. and the only reason he would get so pissed is because that's all he wants.


dont doubt or change your views just because he dosent agree.


but i dont necessarily agree.What do you think about waiting to have sex till marriage?
if it is the right decision for you and that is how you want to live your life then that's all that matters.





I will say being celibate is a wonderful way to weed out the guys who would only use you for sex.





I also have to wonder why this guy got so upset with you over the sex issue. If you were dating long enough to share your values with him then it shouldn't have come as a surprise to him. If you were teasing him then I could understand him getting upset. as long as you were honest in that sex outside of marriage isn't for you and you behave in a consistent manner that broadcasts your personal values (no teasing) then there was no reason from him to get angry. He only needed to make the decision to not continue dating you.





If you really did nothing except refuse to have sex with him then his inappropriate anger was your signal that you dodged a bullet and you're definitely better off w/o him in your life.
Well I think two things: 1, the guy is terrible to have gotten MAD, he should just say ok, I understand, but I do want to have sex, so Im going to have to date someone else.





2: I dont understand that principle. If you use birth control and condoms, and you are in love, and dedicated to not having children young, then I dont see a problem with it.





In fact, I think it is healthier to have sex before marriage. You want to know you bond with the guy well, that you will have a healthy sex life with him that is sustainable, and yeah, in general you want to know how to handle sex as part of a mature relationship.





I cannot IMAGINE marrying someone who I had not been able to be close to like that.
haha well its good that you can say no to him, ill give you props for that one! If you aren't comfortable with having sex just say no. and sex till marriage is ones personal choice, i mean us humans are naturally sexual beings, but if you arent ready dont do it.
I don't believe in waiting to have sex after marriage.


But the decision when to have sex is entirely up to you.
like a world without war. unrealistic, but ideal :)


it takes strength, buddy. i don't have it.


but the guy seems too horny for you. get a guy who will respect your decision.
Lol I wouldn't get mad, just wouldn't date the person if there wasn't a strong emotional attachment to her.
What's the point? After getting married, you'll only be stuck with having sex with one person for the rest of your life. Test drive!
It is all about your opinon. If it is in your belief to wait then good. You are a strong person to not presurreded into it