How do you avoid marriage bait and switch?

there are some people who put on an act and then when they get married they completely do a ';bait and switch'; so I'm wondering is there a way to avoid that?How do you avoid marriage bait and switch?
Nobody completely does a bait and switch. You always, always, always get signs (no matter how small) of a persons true character. The ';trick'; is to look deeply at the person you are dating (engaged too) and all their behaviors, discussions, etc. Ask the hard questions before you make that move. It's awkward, but you'll thank yourself afterwards when you have weeded out the losers...How do you avoid marriage bait and switch?
Not to scare you but, what is bad, is ten times worst. So whatever habit they may have that seems unbearable, will be hated by you then. I figure, as long as they are not abusive, a poor money manager, an alcoholic, or has a pattern of being unfaithful, oh and forgot lying, what else could be unbearable. But the best way to avoid a bait and switch is to be realistic, and getting married is not some voodo trick that makes a person better. So if that person has dangerous habits now, do not think ';I DO'; will magically repair it. Ask yourself, ';Is this person the person they have always been, one can only fake but for so long';
After marriage usually some changes occur . couples seem to adjust new habits ,attitudes,on both sides.and they start to learn and to know the personality traits of their partner and of course the affection should always be there so as not to reach the point of bait and switch.
The future depend on the initial investment of ';act first not to lost later ';


Conservative person do not fancy this philosphy.





When we concern we make comparison of right and wrong.


What they are getting is better off than those do not get it.





They take chance and strike while opportunity is there.
Simply by putting in the time getting to know each other before you are engaged, date at least a year and a half.