What should i do if my husband still loves his 1st girlfriend but still commits to our marriage?

i found that he has his love of his live, his 1st girlfriend (it is written in his latest cellphone note). when i asked for divorce, he refused. he said that he probably misjudged his feeling towards his ex. he loved me once,he said, he asked to give him several years to love me again. it's confusing...since that time..i can't say';i love you';anymore...so does he..we have 2 years old daughter..that's makes me stay so far...i just don't know if i still love him.What should i do if my husband still loves his 1st girlfriend but still commits to our marriage?
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if you need him and even he should need you, he cant keep hanging out in his past... you need to be strict with all this... he cannot take u for granted, your his wife his partner for life... he should cut all his previous love ties... you get friendly with some of ur old friends then u see how he reacts.. he will never stand it and understand your situation.What should i do if my husband still loves his 1st girlfriend but still commits to our marriage?
What an *** you should get out sounds like your wasting your time. If i felt like that i would never had told you. You can try to fall in love again if you think its worth it. Go out on some dates just you and him alone.
you can fix it if he is honest with you.


if he wants to work your marriage out and you wish to give him a chance then he needs to be honest with you about everything.
Several years????? Why? I think I may love you in ten years or so. So let's hook up. I promise I won't love my wife Then either. See where I'm going with this? Why do women put up with it?
Everyone is going to tell you to go to marriage counseling. It's probably a good idea. It didn't help me but I know it's helped some people.


You made a statement that you don't know if you still love him. That's the first thing you need to figure out. If you don't love him that's a big problem. It'll be really hard to work things out if there's know love.


How long was he and his ex broke-up before you guys got together. Maybe if it wasn't long you could have been a rebound relationship for him. I'm not trying to hurt your feelings but that is something you need to take into consideration.


If my husband couldn't tell me that he loves me and only me I just don't think I'd stay. You deserve to have a husband who knows that he loves only you.


I hope this helps. Good Luck. Remember don't settle!