Do men get confused or scared before making commitment or marriage?

Men, do you get confused or scared before marriage or make commitment when you are thinking about it or when the girl is asking?





Do you still eventually get married/make commitment? and why? what do you expect girl to be during the period when you are still thinking? leave you alone?Do men get confused or scared before making commitment or marriage?
There are many reasons a man will get scared before marriage. And your reaction to it will or will not effect it. He is either thinking - did I make the right choice? or is this the right time? or will I make her happy? or is this going to last? or what kind of freedom am I giving up? Don't over analyze and just enjoy the moment. If he backs out be glad.Do men get confused or scared before making commitment or marriage?
Every man is different. My man is only looking for commitment, he can't do casual relationships or be with someone he doesn't feel is 'the one'. And I know I can trust him on this. We've been together for 3 years, known each other for 5, since school.





I know a lot of men who do freak out, and get scared about only being with one girl for the rest of their lives etc. But I believe that if a guy really loves you, and wants to be with you, then he won't freak out, 'cos if he does then he's hiding something.
Often, the thought of marriage can provoke fear as you've described rather than perplexity.





Humanity has alot of questions and quite rightly, questioning is part of our nature:





Why are we here? Who am I? What happens when we die?





Are amongst the most frequently asked questions, I believe. Marriage is similar, in the sense that your husband to be hasn't quite figured out what he is doing or getting himself into, *exactly*.





Comfort your husband and offer him support (Don't give blatant support though. Rather a more subtle approach).
its more scared than confused