How is it possible to fill in a hole in your marriage by sleeping with someone else numerous times?

thats the excuse my husband gave me. he was lacking at home. do guys really think getting some from someone else will fix whats broken at home or is this just a cop out?How is it possible to fill in a hole in your marriage by sleeping with someone else numerous times?
It's both a reality and a cop out at the same time.





People cheat because they usually have needs that aren't being fulfilled. That's not an excuse, but it is a reason.





When people cheat it's because their interests in fulfilling their needs overwhelms their resolve to deal with the problem otherwise.





The great majority of men and women who cheat say that they do it because they are lacking at home - either sexually or emotionally (or usually both). That doesn't make it acceptable or OK, but it's a reality.





Keeping an active interest in keeping your spouse happy (and making it easy for them to tell you when they aren't) is the best way to avoid such problems.How is it possible to fill in a hole in your marriage by sleeping with someone else numerous times?
It is a plausible reason...





But it is no excuse for infidelity.





You deserve honor and respect. If he felt like things were lacking, he should have done his damn hardest to communicate that with you and seek marital counseling.





I feel so terrible for you, right now. My stomach actually clenches.





I don't know if you want 'em, but I'll keep you in my prayers.
its not possible...why do you think he still does it...cuz its a bottomless pit that will never satisfy him. Its not filling the any hole if he still does it constantly. Human cravings and sexual desires are like your stomach...no matter how much fopod you put into it, it craves for more. With this ppl need will power and perseverance...if they dont have it, marraiges will not work.
He needs to grow up. If you are in a relationship and things are less than what you feel they are. Communication is the key, not finding someone else to sleep with. Total disregard for your spouses feelings and emotional well being. he is simply a selfish idiot in my opinion.
It is just a way of shifting or sharing the blame. Seeking to justify ones own reason for messing up is an age old tradition. Goes back to Adam and Eve. When asked why Adam ate the fruit, he told God that ';The woman YOU gave me'; blah blah blah. It is a sign of poor character.
Anyone who would genuinely believe this question is probably just as dumb! (sorry!....)





He's so stupid and making excuses! He just wants an excuse to cheat and by suggesting this, and he does, then you have given him the OK so he doesn't feel guilty!
he was filling a hole, it just wasn't yours. he's full of excuses, it's much easier to blame you for his wrongdoing, that way he feels less guilty and you feel like you did something wrong. pretty smart, huh?
You're still with this guy?





Maybe you should sex it up with someone else and see if what he says is really true.